How To Tell If A Show Is Written By A Woman (259/365)

We love a good provocative title, before the men who read the title get pissed off, take a deep breath. I’m not even going to insult your intelligence by stating ‘not all men’ because in all honesty male writers range from good to bad, like anyone else. However, when it comes to writing a female character they mainly fail and it’s kind of embarrassing.

They stick to outdated archetypes and really write us in a very specific way that is not only incorrect, but so common that it’s kind of annoying. So instead of using todays blog post to shit on how men write women, I’m going to flip the idea on it’s head and show you how to spot if a show is written by a woman. This was inspired by the fact that I recently finished watching something, and guessed it was probably written by a woman, and I was correct.

Strong women are shown to have a personality outside of being ‘strong’

Men have always had a problem when it comes to writing strong women and I think it comes from the fact that a lot of writers put female characters in two groups: Strong and Weak, and that’s just not a good representation of real life. As a result of this we get two dimensional characters who either exist to save or be saved, when in reality writing a well developed woman with real strength requires a lot more than these two archetypes.

Strong women should be allowed to go through the same journeys as male characters, and be written as people and not as a gender. We can tell when women are the writers because a lot of them tend to see the character as more than just strong or weak. They’ll choose to write a woman as a growing three dimensional character because they’ll draw it from a lot of their own experiences, whether it’s through knowing other women, or being a woman themselves.

I watched a Korean drama recently where a noble woman also moonlighted as a rebel, she was strong, skilled with a gun and could literally jump between roofs. The reason I knew this drama was written by a woman is because the character also had room to grow, she was ignorant, she was weak, she had limitations because of their feudal society and she had a lot of backlash trying to overcome it. She grew into an amazing rebel, but still needed the help of all of her comrades, she fell in love, and she was a well fleshed out character in the end. I hesitate to think about how a man would have handled her character, but I feel like it would be more like Akamai Ga Kills version of a ‘strong woman’, which just isn’t good.

The female gaze is present

The male gaze is everywhere, we see it in TV, adverts and honestly seeing boobs everywhere is kind of an eye sore. So when women write media you can see the female gaze, which is just as sexual, but somewhat linked to emotions as well. This is best seen in Orange is the New Black, in every variety – we have the lust, the love, the tension – quite literally everything and it’s really refreshing as a break from the ‘tits and ass’ view that we get in our day to day lives.

Every character has room for emotional growth

Regardless of gender, characters have a lot more room to grow when a woman writes them (from what I’ve seen). I’m not just talking about seeing men cry, or seeing women cry I just mean the layers of emotions are a lot more intense. Now this point is pretty provocative and very two dimensional so I won’t spend a lot of time expanding, because I’m aware it’s flawed, but in a lot of cases it is the truth. #notallmen

Women actually speak to other women about more things than their male interests

Have you ever heard of the Bechdel test? Well instead of giving you a dictionary definition, let me break it down – It’s a test to see if female characters ever interact with each other without talking about men. Simple enough isn’t it? Well, most media fail this test mainly because women either don’t interact with each other, or when they do they just talk about men endlessly.

When women write media, the form of media tends to pass the test. I say ‘tends to’ because even we’re guilty of fucking this up.

Male friendships show a lot more emotions as well

Men have friendships that exist outside of competing and have a lot more room to have genuine friendships. It’s beautiful but also sad that in a lot of media they’ll stick to showing a certain type of friendship, even JD and Turk in Scrubs was relatively groundbreaking and that should really be the norm.

If this blog pissed you off, then I’m doing my job. I kind of wrote a lot of my points in a very general way on purpose just to see how people take it. If you made it this far, how did it make you feel? Should I stick to being fair or just piss everyone off?

2 thoughts on “How To Tell If A Show Is Written By A Woman (259/365)

  1. Was the female character you talked about Ae-shin from Mr. Sunshine? Because holy hell did I love her character. I absolutely loved how three dimension she was, how she had so much character to her, how she just did not fit into the rigid ‘strong women stereotype’, and how she was capable of falling in love with out sacrificing all her goals and aspirations for it. It was actually funny how the typical gender roles were reversed when she was putting her country ahead of Eugene and him begging and holding on to her arm to stay with him. Uh, I fucking loved this drama so much. This would be embarrassing if you’re not talking about the same drama lol. Btw, I would love to see you and Saima cover the topic of well written female characters in Korean dramas.

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    1. You guessed it correctly, I gasped! Ae-shin was honestly so layered it was beautiful, and yes I loved how the roles were switched between her and Eugene. The drama as a whole emotionally broke me, honestly, it was beautiful, my only issue with it was that it was too pro American. Oooh that’s a good shout, I’ll let her know and we can plan it 🙂


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